yes, you. you always come uninvited and insist on doing your thing, which is actually not always 'my thing'. you start a civil war on the borders and don't leave without any loss or casualties. stop invading my space and stop patronising me with your bullshit about not judging you and all that new-age terminology of yours. and no, my big mountain of laundry ironing on a sunday does not give you the privilege to be here, so go away.
ok, feel better now...